A Second Honeymoon on The Camino de Santiago

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A Second Honeymoon on The Camino de Santiago

Author Jeanne McWilliams Blasberg shares her Camino experience and why she feels the trail is the perfect place for romance.

When my husband got down on one knee in the Sacred Valley of Peru and asked me to spend another 25 years by his side, I teared up.

That romantic gesture was four years ago, and although I did embrace him with a great big yes, it wasn’t until our adventure this fall, walking the last 210km of the Camino de Santiago, that I experienced true second honeymoon bliss.

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I’ve always been a believer that walking together, whether on the beach or just around the neighborhood, forges a relationship. I rekindled an old college best-friendship hiking Mt Kilimanjaro, the slow pace of our ascent offering the opportunity to catch up after a long gap spent raising our families.

Walking the Camino, however, would prove much more different than Kili or that earlier trek to Macchu Picchu with my husband.

The Camino is done without guides or porters, it can be both a social and a personal journey, it can be filled with spontaneous deviations, and it turns out to be very well suited for romance.

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The original plan was for me to walk alone: a chance to meditate and use the afternoons to write. So when my husband decided he would take the time off work and join me for this second honeymoon, it was slightly unexpected.

Maybe it was because he was reminded of the fact one of my best friends met her husband on the Camino.

I teased that he didn’t want me running off with a pilgrim. He spun it another way. “It sounds like one of those life-changing experiences,” he said. “I want us to do it together.”

Arriving a few months later at our starting point in Ponferrada, we were a little jet-lagged and stunned, anticipating what we had in store for the next twelve days. We left the room in search of an early dinner (still technically lunchtime in Spain) and were immediately surrounded by beauty, good food and wine.

We discussed our intention for the walk. If nothing else, we would eat well, but agreed to be open to however the trip might unfold. In the beginning, I was skeptical and a little worried about the itinerary (I had turned all the details over to this company called CaminoWays and departed home in haste). Twelve days!

My husband and I would be doing a lot of talking or would it be re-hashing? We would likely develop aches and pains that would need attending – his knee was scheduled to be replaced upon our return! Yes, I’d seen “the movie” and knew there would be inspiring scenery and friendly people along the way, but aside from all that, I didn’t know what to expect.

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Besides the revelations that are too numerous to include here, what I never expected were the long, lazy afternoons. We’d typically end the day’s walking around 3 or 4 pm, with plenty of time to spare before a Spanish dinner, true second honeymoon bliss.

Our luggage would be waiting, as was a comfortable bed and dinner reservation. (I must say twelve days of successful logistics felt nothing less than miraculous!).

Free of touristy concerns or the need to go sightseeing, we surrendered to blissful exhaustion and a desire to get horizontal – a pillow never felt so plush. We had plenty of time to write and read, in fact, my husband and I took turns reading aloud to each other.

There was plenty of time for other things too… warm showers, massaging each other’s muscles, exchanging foot massages, and napping led to a physical and spiritual intimacy we hadn’t made time for in ages.

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Indeed, we ended up meeting and walking with a fair share of love birds. Our senses awakened each morning in a myriad of ways – there was a unanimous agreement that afternoon delight, I mean, siesta was a marvelous thing. Why don’t we have a siesta in the US? We will reinstate the siesta we proclaimed, if not in society, then in our lives at least (Easier said than done).

My husband and I talked about a thousand unexpected things and shared long stretches of silence. During the filming of The Way, Emilio Estevez’s son Taylor fell in love with one of the pilgrims, married and currently lives in Burgos Spain, a town on the route. I wasn’t surprised to learn this. The simplicity of life on the Camino (and one expertly laid out by CaminoWays) leaves space for so many other things – for laughter, quiet reflection, and most of all, for love.

Jeanne McWilliams Blasberg is an award-winning novelist and travel writer from Boston, USA. She and her husband can’t wait for their next walking journey!

For more information about the Camino de Santiago or to book your trip (whether it’s a second honeymoon or not), please don’t hesitate to contact us.

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